When we think about inheritance, we usually think of financial inheritance and inheritance of family heirlooms. However, if you still have grandparents in your life, you are enjoying the presence of a good legacy.
Proverbs 16:31 says: “Grey hair is a crown of glory. It is achieved by the path of righteousness.” Grandpa, grandma, have you ever thought of your gray hair as a crown?
Everything you’ve ever done in life has been a result of justice, and every wrinkle (even if anti-wrinkle cream doesn’t work) and every gray hair and gray hair is a crown for those around you to see. Have you ever thought about it?
The legacy of your faith that you pass on to the next generation is the greatest legacy that can be passed down through generations. Deuteronomy 4:9 I tell them to remember what they went through and teach it to their children.
Passing on this faith from generation to generation is the most important legacy. Don’t neglect it.
How many times have I heard testimonies like, “My grandmother prayed for me,” or “My grandfather’s prayers protected me.” Never stop praying for your children and grandchildren. It’s the most important thing you can do for them. When you don’t know what to do or say, pray more and say less.
When my oldest granddaughter was only 2 years old, she loved to say congratulations. Every time she said “Amen,” her reply was “Paymo.” Yes, sweet girl, we should all pray more.
Becoming a grandparent isn’t always easy, but it’s well worth the effort. Respecting your children’s boundaries is the only way to create loving access to your grandchildren. Maintaining good relationships with my children (I include my step-children here as well) creates positive interactions for the whole family.
Don’t even think about giving unsolicited parenting advice to your children. If the kids aren’t asking for it, they probably don’t want it. Your whole family will be blessed if you work hard to fulfill your God-given role as a grandparent.
I wish there was an easy way to do this, but it all comes down to unconditional love and prayer. Be generous with your child’s parenting and forgive them if they feel disrespected. We can only control our own actions and reactions; we cannot control the actions and reactions of others.
Most of all, thank God every day for the privilege of being a grandparent and for allowing you to be a part of your grandchild’s life. You are as much a treasure to them as they are to you. Make the most of that wonderful, life-giving relationship.
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