Some of the Christmas songs I grew up listening to as a child were: “Mele Kalikimaka” (Hawaiian way of saying Merry Christmas). In our latest book, A couple’s journey with God In dedication, we will share another important word that we learned during our missionary trip to the island. In Hawaiian, “Kuleana“It means your”path” or “owner” – the people you are responsible for. It’s your accountability system.we want to call it yours success net. Imagine walking the tightrope of life. These people are carrying a net under your life in case you fall. This includes family members who know you well, friends who walk next to you, children and grandchildren, and people who look up to you. This includes mentors and leaders who have poured into you.
smart couples have big money Kuleana,and Kuleana They can be genuine, honest, and authentic. fellowship, Kuleana “We declare to you what we have seen and heard, that you also may have fellowship with us; and our fellowship is with the Father and his Son; Jesus Christ”(1 John 1:3). Although the Bible does not use the exact word “responsibility,” some people refer to this type of honest fellowship as an accountability system. However, there are some words that strongly suggest that God considers accountability essential.
Fellowship (or Koinonia) It refers to an association based on a common bond of active participation and sharing. The communion of fire involves authenticity, which involves his two keywords.
recommendation It means “called together to bring out the best in others.”
admonish It means “to keep in mind” and includes the idea of keeping the right thoughts in the minds of others.
So it seems like God wants us all to have fellowship, a group of people who walk together or walk together. And while we travel together, we should put the right thoughts in each other’s minds.
Many people ask Bill and I, “What is the strength of your relationship?”we have to say yes Kuleana First of all, each other. We honestly share when we are struggling with something. Too many people continue to hide their sins, negative thoughts, and unresolved feelings from their spouse. Sometimes it’s even a well-intentioned “I don’t want to hurt him/her girlfriend.” We always think it’s wise to consult God first and then whomever God directs you to, but often your spouse will know what’s best for you. Because he knows, he could be one of the best people to use as a sounding board in a conflict.
Bill and I are accountable to each other in so many areas. how we spend (or save) money, what we watch on TV, what we listen to, what we read, how we raise our children, and all our spiritual disciplines. (Prayer, Bible study, exercise, using your gifts, worship, and yes) Koinonia or Kuleana to build success net together. What God is teaching us, what the Holy Spirit is telling us to do or say, or how God might better reflect His glory. We are drawn to each other like magnets because we are honest about how God wants us to live.
When we were dating, all of us were Kuleana or Koinonia Friendship circles greet each other with “Hello!” how are you? What is God teaching you? ” Just asking that question made it true. Kuleana Because we have a responsibility to learn something from God every day and get answers to our questions. Bill and I continue this practice in our personal lives.
Before gifting a friend or family member a tie or coffee pot this holiday season, consider this.What Christian books, audios, and videos can help them grow with God?” We have a responsibility to put the right thoughts in each other’s minds as we walk with them, so take advantage of this great opportunity to give the gift that might change the other person’s life for the better. . Then, during the Christmas season, look for opportunities to have heart-to-heart conversations with each member of your family. Kuleana. Today, go for a walk with a friend or just sit and relax.Kona” (coffee) and asked, “So what is God teaching you?” And I have some Kuleana.
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invoice and pam farrell Relationship expert and author of over 37 books, including bestsellers Men are like waffles, women are like spaghetti, 10 best decisions series (for couples, parents, men, women, singles, graduates) and the latest devotionals, A couple’s journey with God. Free articles, books, and resources by the Farrells can be found at: www. Love-Wise.com.
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